Saturday, June 20, 2009

SPRING IN THE UP

I loved in April when the snow finally started to melt. We sanded, not salted the roads so there was plenty of sand to build a dam. People would call my Mom to complain I was building dams on my way home from school and their yards were flooding. (OLD FARTS!!!) We had to wear over shoe boots which zipped up and had fur along the top. Had to use bread bags to slip them over my shoes easier. Could never figure out how my mom knew I had taken my boots off on the first nice days after she cautioned me to "keep your boots on." Think perhaps the wet shoes were a hint. Spring was also the time for marble playing. We would make a hole by sticking our heel in the dirt and turning around to make the hole. We would stand back and throw our marbles. The one closest to the hole got to shoot first. Whoever got all their marbles in first won all the marbles. I was pretty good. No real exertion needed. Drove mom crazy tho as my fingers were always black when Easter came around. I was sent to church in new dress, hat and gloves with the warning to leave my gloves on. what a great childhood I had.

Wednesday, June 10, 2009

Cookie and the wolves

Did I ever tell you I was raised by wolves? Bet I did. Here's the story.


As you all know my mom liked to drink beer. Well one day when I was about 3 months old she went across the street to drink beer with her friend Dot. When she left there she had to go to the bathroom so while walking thru the woods she stopped to pee. She set me down and forgot she had me. Thank God a pack of wolves found me and nursed me until I was old enough to eat raw meat. I lived with them until I was about 4 and one day I wandered out of the woods and lo and behold there was mom at Dots again and all of a sudden she remembered me. Miracle hey? I did walk on all fours and bayed at the moon until I started Kindergarten. Strange no one else in the family noticed I was gone. Oh well alls well that ends well. To this day I like raw meat and at full moon have a tendancy to howl.

Tuesday, June 9, 2009

mom and grandparents

My mom was a woman before her time. She finished high school and went to Soumi college in Hancock for business, but did not finish. She also started beauty school, but had to quit because of allergies. When I was 12 she went to work for Bancroft Dairy and worked as a book keeper for 8 years. She then was head bookeeper for the city of Houghton water dept. for 5 years. Then went to Houghton High school and was bookeeper and secretary to the superintendent until her retirement. She died of Alzhiemer disease. She loved to knit and to walk. Her cooking did leave a little for improvement. She MADE me go to school. She told me she wanted me to have an education as that made me more than just a woman. Smart lady. She was crabby, but was always the rock of all families within our street. quite the lady.

Grandpa Fillbrook died of a heart attack when I was 2 so I never really knew him. He was alway depicted as funny and loved to have fun. My favorite story about him was when asked what he wanted done with his body when he died he said, "stick a bone up my ass and let the dog drag me around the back yard."

Grama Lucchesi also died that year of breast cancer. Never knew her either. Was always told she was an incredible cook and was as wide as she was tall.

Grandpa Lucchesi had a thick Italian accent and was hard for me to understand. He lived in a house that belonged to the copper mines. He did finally buy it. His toilet was in his stone basement and I made my dad stay outside that door until I was finished well into my adulthood. Memories of fighting cocks Grandpa kept in cages in the basement during the winters scared the devil out of me. He always made me look at the Easter story on his stereoscope no matter what time of year it was. He always asked me how school was and told me to tell my teachers I was a good girl. My grandpa said so. He was 99 when he died in 1968. He loved gardening and brandy.

Grama Fillbrook was a redhead full of fire when young. When Grandpa died she lived in the same home and Aunt Vi and her family lived with her. She was kind to me and loved me. she was very protective of me. When report cards were due and I knew I was going to catch heck from my mom I would tell her and she would come to our house and keep mom in line. I think my mom was scared of her mom. Gram loved tea and violets. When she was at our home we always had tea and cookies in the afternoon. She always put milk in her tea. Loved it when the cookies were lorna dunes or chocolate striped. Shse was a good cook and my favorite thing she made was heavy cake. She came from England and worked as a maid before she married. Her maiden name was Moyle. One favorite memory of her was going to the mother daughter banquet for mothers day at the Hurontown Methodist Church. Alway gram, mom, me and cousin Joni went., Gram was 97 when she died. She had breast cancer and glucoma she struggled with for years. She live with mom and dad when her health declined. I wasn't always nice to her, but she always loved me. She always gave me a dollar for my birthday, which was alot for her as she really had no money.

That's it for now kiddies... Love you all-Nona

Monday, June 8, 2009

the start

I was born September 25, 1946 in Hancock Michigan. My parents were Ralph Antonio Lucchesi and Edith Lyle (Fillbrook)Lucchesi. . Mom told me she gained 60 lb. during her pregnancy with me. She also said she was in the hospital for 2 weeks (routine stay for that time.) They kept her in bed for a week and she fainted when they got her up. My how things have changed.

A little about Mom. She was born at home to Edith Moyle Fillbrook and George Donald Fillbrook.. She was the second of a set of twins that were so small they were put in a both in the wood stove to keep them warm and fed with an eyedroopper.. She and her sister Violet May had 2 older brothers, John and Glen. My Aunt Vi has always lived in the house they were born 404 Baraga Avenue.

My dad was also born at home to Amelia Checci and Felix Lucchei. He had 2 sisters, Anna and Matilda. Three brothers, Peter, Joseph and Arthur. Anna died of Brights disease and TIlly died of breast cancer. Art had epilepsy and waskept up in the attic after his seizures. He was mildly retartded because of this. Remember this was the time before medicine was invented for it. One memory my dad told me was when he was in 6th grade his family made him quit school and work in the copper mines. He hated that so he would take a train from Laurium where he lived to Houghton and would steal stuff to take back and sell. He eventually got a job delivering propane gas and then became a furniture salesman. Despite his lack of education he was great at math and had excellent English. His parents were both from Italy, but he never spoke Italian. He was married before he met my mother and she died of an illegal abortion. They had 3 children, Patt, Fred (Ace) and Paul. They were 13, 12 and 10 when my parents were married.

Only 2 stories of my infancy. First my nickname was Cookie which was given to me by Aunt Vi. She claimed I was as sweet as a Cookie. Second when I was about 6mo old, my mom was in the kitchen and she noticed the older boys throwing what she thought was a football from living room to dining room . She went in to yell at them and found it was their baby sister they were throwing. Baby sister loved it. Enough for now, will get back to the stories later.